It
has been authentically narrated on the authority of Aisha, may Allah be
pleased with her, that the Prophet prohibited himself from drinking
honey to please his wives. Aisha and Hafsa were upset that the Prophet
was spending more time with his wife Zainab on account of a honey drink
she would serve him, so they secretly agreed to pretend to be offended
by the odor. The Prophet did not want to offend his wives, so he
swore an oath never to drink it again. Allah revealed the verses telling
the Prophet not to prohibit what is lawful.
Aisha
reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, would spend
time with his wife Zainab bint Jahsh and he would drink a concoction of
honey. Hafsa and I agreed that whomever the Prophet visited first, we
would say, “I notice a strong odor of mimosa gum on you.” The Prophet
visited one of them and she said this to him, so the Prophet said:
بَلْ شَرِبْتُ عَسَلًا عِنْدَ زَيْنَبَ بِنْتِ جَحْشٍ وَلَنْ أَعُودَ لَهُI have taken a honey drink at Zainab’s house and I will not do it again.
The verse was revealed:
لِمَ تُحَرِّمُ مَا أَحَلَّ اللَّهُ لَكَWhy do you forbid yourself from what Allah has made lawful for you? (66:1)The authenticity of this narration is agreed upon according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim. Al-Bukhari included it in his explanation of Sūrat al-Taḥrīm. Moreover, Aisha was the direct witness about whom the verses speak, so she would know best what really happened.
An
alternative explanation of the passage has been narrated by others. In
this version, the Prophet prohibits himself from being intimate with his
concubine wife to please his other wives. In particular, it is alleged
that Hafsa became upset when the Prophet was intimate with Maria the
Copt in her house and on her bed, saying:
أَيْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ فِي بَيْتِي وَعَلَى فِرَاشِيO Messenger of Allah, in my house and on my bed?This narration comes on the authority of Zaid ibn Aslam who was from the third generation and not a witness to the events in question. Hence, Ibn Hajar rules that this narrations’s chain of authorities is incomplete (mursal) in Fatḥ al-Bārī 9/288. For this reason, the explanation was not universally agreed upon by the classical commentators.
Al-Qurtubi mentions first the story of Aisha followed by narrations that include Maria, then he says:
أَصَحُّ هَذِهِ الْأَقْوَالِ أَوَّلُهَا وَأَضْعَفُهَا أَوْسَطُهَاThe most correct of these opinions is the first of them, and the weaker of them are the others.Source: Tafsīr al-Qurṭubī 66:1
In other words, the authentic explanation is the one given by Aisha and the stories that include Maria are weak by comparison.
وَإِنَّمَا الصَّحِيحُ أَنَّهُ كَانَ فِي الْعَسَلِ وَأَنَّهُ شَرِبَهُ عِنْدَ زَيْنَبَ وَتَظَاهَرَتْ عَلَيْهِ عَائِشَةُ وَحَفْصَةُ فِيهِ وَجَرَى مَا جَرَى فَحَلَفَ أَلَّا يَشْرَبَهُ وَأَسَرَّ ذَلِكَ وَنَزَلَتْ الْآيَةُ فِي الْجَمِيعِIndeed, the only authentic narration is that it was about honey, that the Prophet drank it with Zainab, and Aisha and Hafsa pretended to be offended by it. There occurred what occurred and the Prophet made an oath never to drink it again. He confided that to his wife and the verse was revealed regarding all of them.In sum, the story about the dispute between Hafsa, Maria, and the Prophet does not have a strong basis in Islam. It is part of the apocryphal traditions that are of varying and questionable degrees of authenticity. Rather, the strongest explanation of the passage, passed down by the direct witness Aisha through an unbroken chain of authorities, is that the verses were revealed about a honey drink.
Success comes from Allah, and Allah knows best.
